I shed a single tear today.
If you knew me at all, you would know that me and tears have a love/hate relationship.
I love that I’m able to express my emotions.
I hate that, no matter the emotion, tears are usually involved.
I love that I am self aware enough to know when I need to cry.
I hate that I don’t always have control over when they come. I’ve tried blinking wildly, changing the subject, looking up awkwardly, squinting my eyes, taking deep breaths, swallowing, and even laughing hysterically to act as if I’m literally…DYING LAUGHING!
None of that has worked.
Back to the subject…
As I listened to Deepak he mentioned how effortlessly things happen in nature. And like nature, children move through life in a similar fashion until an experience whether physical, emotional, spiritual or mental, begins to weigh down on them.
My first thought was ‘When was the first time I felt as if something heavy was weighing down on me?’
3rd grade? 4th grade? 6th grade?
Although it kinda began in 3rd grade with my father having an accident on his job that left him disabled, therefore unable to work, I think the full weight of that day arrived in 6th grade when he began kissing me down my neck one day.
Then my thoughts went to my students who I know have seen their share of suffering. And then that damn tear rolled down my cheek.
They don’t deserve the lives they live.
I am not in 6th grade. I am here. In this moment. And I’m not who I used to be.
I am living in the present. And in doing that, I am endlessly renewed.