I have been so busy lately that I haven’t been able to post.
I have been reading ALL of your posts. I may not be able to “like” them in the moment, but as soon as I’m on, I go through and like, like, like…so don’t think I’m a speed reader, or just “liking” for the sake of “liking.” I’ve honestly read your words. Ok…maybe not the lengthy posts…
Anyway…so much has changed seemingly overnight.
I have officially begun my new job. Unfortunately I haven’t been to the gym or worked on my paper…so not having a job was actually kinda nice.
I have officially moved into my new apartment! This happened just this past Saturday. By the time I cleaned my “Mobile Cottage” (that’s just a fancy word for cockroach infested mobile trailer situated in a swamp-like area, which is actually my classroom), and moved, my back was pulsating. I am still living among taped boxes and stuff that hasn’t been given a designated location. I had to actually work on SUNDAY! What teacher has to do THAT?!?!
Anyway…I’m excited to get to see my students Monday. I’ve already met 10 of them at Open House and they seem really nice. Most of their families come from El Salvador and do not speak English…so here’s where the 2 years of junior high, 2 years of high school, and a minor in Spanish will all kick in. HA! I’m a 2nd grader at best when it comes to speaking Spanish. But hopefully some of my students will take pity on me and give me some free lessons.
Here’s what you’ve been waiting for…it was all a dream! A 7-month nightmare from which I have finally awaken. He and I are back to where we were. TRUST ME PEOPLE, I was so serious each and every time I typed that I was done. That I probably could NEVER be in a relationship with him again. That I had checked out. I’m here as a witness that depression and being, physically and emotionally, in a place that strips you of everything you are for yourself and others is very real. And if you can find the light at the end of the tunnel, and just keep moving toward it, you can find yourself again. YOU CAN BE THAT PERSON AGAIN! I never thought I could tell him that I love or miss him. I never thought I’d ever refer to him as “My Love” ever again. But I’ve done all of those things and they simply fall out of my face so effortlessly. Just as they once had.
I’m not sure what made the difference for me. I know some people struggle with depression for years. They take drugs just to cope. I am so thankful that I didn’t get to that point. Allow me to self-assess for a moment…I have always been very self-aware. When I’m feeling “off”, I question why. I’m usually able to attribute it to something. Either my monthly is coming, or I’m overwhelmed with work. Whatever the root cause, I’m usually able to figure it out. I also don’t make excuses for it. I don’t say, “Well, it’s just how I am.” Because I know THAT’S NOT ME, THAT’S SOME PSYCHO BITCH WHO HAS COMPLETELY LOST HER DAMN MIND!
In saying that…I’m not sure if that’s the reason I was able to come out on the other side of it. I’m just glad and grateful that I have. And I pray it doesn’t happen again. However, if it does, then I hope I am just as aware, and possibly more so.
And that’s all I have to say about that.